Hey KM,
All standard frets are nickel silver,
all! Do not infer from that email that Taylor's frets are any different. Taylor does
not make fret wire; they buy it like every other guitar maker, the chief supplier (afaik) is Dunlop. As the CS rep stated, there is stainless steel that is the hardest wire available, and does not wear at all since guitar strings are always softer than SS. Then there is Jescar "evo" wire which is in between. For the truly fastidious, you can look up it all up (Rockwell hardness scale) but it's simplest to think of the ubiquitous fret wire as what everyone uses, SS on the opposite end and commonly found on small-maker electrics, and the Jescar in between.
Worth noting is Bob et.al. claim they don't like SS frets for the tone they supposedly impart; this is what the CS rep was alluding to. That SS imparts less-than-desirable
playability, however, is hogwash. The resultant "ping" or sonic "artifacts" some claim they hear with SS is arguably worth discussing. But to suggest SS frets don't
play as well as NS is flat-out silly, if not spoken out of his own ignorance.
As for the sonic difference, I have refretted a Tele with SS and it was simply sublime. Zero sonic difference, and played
demonstrably better than NS. And this is duplicated by
every SS-fret electric I have ever played. I am wholly sold on SS for electrics, and whatever refrets I will encounter will absolutely be in SS. That said, for my acoustics, I'll likely go with the Jescar, if only to play it safe, so to speak. Worth noting is Taylor
will refret your acoustic with Evo wire, so there is always that option. I've personally had only one acoustic refretted, and I had the Taylor folks do it with standard NS only because at that time I was cash poor and could not justify their upcharge for the evo. On hindsight, I think this was a poor decision and simply should have gone with the evo. As a side note, there are those who have, indeed, happily refretted their acoustics with SS and love the results. All food for thought, in any event.
As for Taylors wearing faster than other guitars, I say no way. NS metal is what it is. And there simply are too much variables between guitar x, y, or z to claim one guitar's NS frets wear faster than another because of the maker, let alone the frets. FWIW, I offer my own personal experience that we all hold diff guitars differently and
play them differently because of how we feel about this or that guitar. Players are not sonic machines; we simply play different guits differently than others just
because. Ok, so if that sounds really dumb, forgive me, but that is my actual experience. That I don't play my strat the same as my LP, nor my Taylor dred the same as my RT-2. All played a bunch, and all
but the RT gigged: and fwiw, it was my strat and RT that needed the refrets. I can hypothesize the reasons for this, but I'm already too long here
. Some are simply more conducive to being played harder than others, and this is likely the biggest cause for fret wear.
So your well-played Gretsch (kudos to you, btw) for whatever reason isn't showing wear, and perhaps it is simply because we're talking about how you play this and your others (electrics I am guessing). Again, just food for thought as your mileage may vary
Edward